Lovemaking 101


Lying in bed after lovemaking is what I would consider one of the prerequisites of sex itself.

There should be a questionnaire that you hand out to your potential boyfriends and in it, there should be a question that goes:

Are you willing to lie in bed, naked and sweaty after sex to indulge in some pillow talk?

If that guy checks on No, enrol him in Lovemaking 101.

I’d hate to equate sex to textbook theory but I believe there’s three stages in a good sex.
Pre or more commonly known as foreplay, during and post-sex.
Check check check and you’ve got yourself a winner.

There can of course , sometimes be an imbalance of performance on each stage but for me, what always tips the scale is the post-sex.

The half-opened lustful eyes widening to curiosity as stories of our lives unfold in the dark.
The biting of lips ceasing to lazy smiles as our hands entwined under the blanket.
The unrestrained moanings silencing to steady rhythmic breathing as we rest against each other.

It is this getting to know each other when we are stripped bare under the covers that I really began to fall deeper in love.

Oh and is it me or does sex always get better?
Never mind that you’ve done it a thousand times, each time is better than the last. Why is it so?

Remember that very first time with your new boyfriend/girlfriend?
Those unfamiliar curves, those awkward caresses, the tentative kisses…
The hesitant unbuttoning and the rugged breath.

Isn’t it all so very beautiful?

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Published:
12.9.06 / 3pm
Category:
Sexually Explicit