Comments on: The Ex-Files http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/ Fri, 18 May 2012 11:15:51 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.2 By: thegeekinpink http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-478 thegeekinpink Sun, 04 Feb 2007 20:30:56 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-478 Santhiyaa: I'm just like the millions of you women out there - paranoid for no particular reasons at all. But of course there are some women who just do it better than the rest of us. Women think too much. I want to think like a man. Allan: it hurts a LOT while you're at it, browsing through exes' histories. it hurts just a tiny little bit after a calm down session with your boyfriend. hopefully it wont hurt after that. Am: I know!!! We just cant help it right? It's not like we want to... it's just like a piece of bone that we keep gnawing on till it rots off... equate that to relationship.. sorry i was just thinking about Darlink <--- that's my dog. yeah... sorry i lost my train of thoughts haha yeah you get what i mean Merv: you're absolutely right... nothing gets him more worked up than that.. he just doesnt show it.. ju-lian: thank you for the blog compliment. anyway, it's true. they're in the past. i wish i can just let it be but often it's easier than said. but i'm doing great at the moment so no complaints about any exes! julian: you confuse the shit out of me hahahahaha but yeah i got it finally baby sa: =) you got it. chocolattes: i get what you mean. There're times when something bother you about a particular person in your relationship and you don't want to stir trouble by talking about it. but the more you keep it a secret, the more you emotionally not-in-control you feel, that's when you explode. i guess the good thing would be if it really bothers you, and by REALLY i mean you cant sleep, cant trust, cant believe kinda REALLY.. then go ahead... I just talk about it playfully. this whole post is very sarcastic you know. =p strifus: you're brilliant. bits: hahaha i didnt mean to! valz: =) happy for you irene: learn to drop the veil. yeah.. what if it's the guy asking? run and hide. taugey: yayayayayayay me very silly lah ya ya ya ya ya ya. =p i love you. apui: you make me smile. especially your last two sentences. Santhiyaa: I’m just like the millions of you women out there - paranoid for no particular reasons at all. But of course there are some women who just do it better than the rest of us. Women think too much. I want to think like a man.

Allan: it hurts a LOT while you’re at it, browsing through exes’ histories. it hurts just a tiny little bit after a calm down session with your boyfriend. hopefully it wont hurt after that.

Am: I know!!! We just cant help it right? It’s not like we want to… it’s just like a piece of bone that we keep gnawing on till it rots off… equate that to relationship.. sorry i was just thinking about Darlink <— that’s my dog. yeah… sorry i lost my train of thoughts haha yeah you get what i mean

Merv: you’re absolutely right… nothing gets him more worked up than that.. he just doesnt show it..

ju-lian: thank you for the blog compliment. anyway, it’s true. they’re in the past. i wish i can just let it be but often it’s easier than said. but i’m doing great at the moment so no complaints about any exes!

julian: you confuse the shit out of me hahahahaha but yeah i got it finally

baby sa: =) you got it.

chocolattes: i get what you mean. There’re times when something bother you about a particular person in your relationship and you don’t want to stir trouble by talking about it. but the more you keep it a secret, the more you emotionally not-in-control you feel, that’s when you explode. i guess the good thing would be if it really bothers you, and by REALLY i mean you cant sleep, cant trust, cant believe kinda REALLY.. then go ahead…

I just talk about it playfully. this whole post is very sarcastic you know. =p

strifus: you’re brilliant.

bits: hahaha i didnt mean to!

valz: =) happy for you

irene: learn to drop the veil. yeah.. what if it’s the guy asking? run and hide.

taugey: yayayayayayay me very silly lah ya ya ya ya ya ya. =p i love you.

apui: you make me smile. especially your last two sentences.

]]> By: apui http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-408 apui Mon, 29 Jan 2007 13:50:05 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-408 hahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.... dont trust me with my exes.. but im me and not anyone else.. *wiNk* you're funny....i like funnny. funny is good... do what the man says... trust him... i do. and I'M still in a happy relationship with him.. IT WORKS hahahahhahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha….

dont trust me with my exes..

but im me and not anyone else..

*wiNk*

you’re funny….i like funnny. funny is good…
do what the man says…

trust him…

i do. and I’M still in a happy relationship with him..
IT WORKS

]]> By: taugey http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-394 taugey Thu, 25 Jan 2007 13:11:22 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-394 its so funny how girls get paranoid over shit like this. i didnt ask or let you to look in to my BLACK BOX you the wan gatal-gatal go looking. hahaha. BUT i'd be if you brought it up. like that time you said your OLD FRIEND it "seems" ask if HE can stay at your place. for a few seconds i thought. ok,why not they old friends. then i ask...were you ever with him??? then you slowly said yes... yes... that got me pissed for awhile but dont get me wrong. im not bringing it up to start a fight honey. just saying im like that too but im not trying to bring them home. hahahahha joking. u know i love you. its so funny how girls get paranoid over shit like this. i didnt ask or let you to look in to my BLACK BOX you the wan gatal-gatal go looking. hahaha.
BUT i’d be if you brought it up. like that time you said your OLD FRIEND it “seems” ask if HE can stay at your place. for a few seconds i thought. ok,why not they old friends. then i ask…were you ever with him??? then you slowly said yes…
yes… that got me pissed for awhile but dont get me wrong. im not bringing it up to start a fight honey. just saying im like that too but im not trying to bring them home. hahahahha joking. u know i love you.

]]> By: taugey http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-392 taugey Thu, 25 Jan 2007 12:14:00 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-392 honey you so silly... do you see me asking you about your X-files??? no....unless you tell me about them. if i dont want to talk about my ex its coz i just dont like talking about exes not coz.. i still love her or some crazy thought you got in your head about me. hahaha..its like the saying. "dont drink jus in the hood. or you just might get shoot." i bet alot of guys say this to you but im going to say it anyways... trust me...ok. they in the past honey. they are soOo 1998. hahaha. honey you so silly… do you see me asking you about your X-files??? no….unless you tell me about them. if i dont want to talk about my ex its coz i just dont like talking about exes not coz.. i still love her or some crazy thought you got in your head about me. hahaha..its like the saying. “dont drink jus in the hood. or you just might get shoot.”

i bet alot of guys say this to you but im going to say it anyways… trust me…ok. they in the past honey. they are soOo 1998. hahaha.

]]> By: Josh http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-391 Josh Thu, 25 Jan 2007 10:19:07 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-391 just a thought - you could be the ex, other girls ask about and get jealous over ... and the girlfriend his ex(es) talk about and get envy over ... afterall, he's yours now. they (exes) have only the past to hold on, but you hold the present and the future. love ya to bits and pieces and crumbs! just a thought - you could be the ex, other girls ask about and get jealous over … and the girlfriend his ex(es) talk about and get envy over … afterall, he’s yours now. they (exes) have only the past to hold on, but you hold the present and the future.

love ya to bits and pieces and crumbs!

]]> By: Irene http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-390 Irene Wed, 24 Jan 2007 15:35:05 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-390 i agree with valz. sometimes we'd believe anything just to stay deluded but happy. anyway, what if the guy's the one who's asking? i agree with valz. sometimes we’d believe anything just to stay deluded but happy.

anyway, what if the guy’s the one who’s asking?

]]> By: VaLz http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-388 VaLz Tue, 23 Jan 2007 14:27:20 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-388 I refrained myself from asking but that didnt last long. Asked and he said that he loves me more than any other, which made me very happy, regardless if its true or not... Girls are quite good at blinding ourselves. I refrained myself from asking but that didnt last long. Asked and he said that he loves me more than any other, which made me very happy, regardless if its true or not…

Girls are quite good at blinding ourselves.

]]> By: bits http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-387 bits Tue, 23 Jan 2007 14:16:01 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-387 You got everyone paranoid with their partner now... You got everyone paranoid with their partner now…

]]> By: strifus http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-386 strifus Tue, 23 Jan 2007 13:50:09 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-386 It is within our nature, to fear the unknown. In a way, jealousy is a manifestation of that fear. Dont get me wrong, I am not saying that you shouldnt feel that way. I am merely saying that it is normal. I myself have been single for the last 6 years and its mostly my decision that I have been for so long. On the other hand, I am so affraid, to the point of paranoia, that ill be alone some day. The situation may not be the same but the emotions that it brings up is remarkably similar. You have what you want but your paranoid of losing it, whether warranted or not. What it comes down to is a decision. Namely your decision. How much this affects you is up to you. Secret or no secret, truth or not, the decision is up to you to make it what you want it to be. My last gf asked me about my ex. I told her the truth. Sure she got paranoid as hell and started asking me more questions but I weathered the storm but in the end I reassured her that I am the one in her life and a year later, she never brought her up again. Ladies, and gentlemen, decide whats important to you and go forward. Its hard but with time, the rewards are love with you partner like you wouldnt believe :) It is within our nature, to fear the unknown. In a way, jealousy is a manifestation of that fear. Dont get me wrong, I am not saying that you shouldnt feel that way. I am merely saying that it is normal.

I myself have been single for the last 6 years and its mostly my decision that I have been for so long. On the other hand, I am so affraid, to the point of paranoia, that ill be alone some day. The situation may not be the same but the emotions that it brings up is remarkably similar. You have what you want but your paranoid of losing it, whether warranted or not.

What it comes down to is a decision. Namely your decision. How much this affects you is up to you. Secret or no secret, truth or not, the decision is up to you to make it what you want it to be.

My last gf asked me about my ex. I told her the truth. Sure she got paranoid as hell and started asking me more questions but I weathered the storm but in the end I reassured her that I am the one in her life and a year later, she never brought her up again. Ladies, and gentlemen, decide whats important to you and go forward. Its hard but with time, the rewards are love with you partner like you wouldnt believe :)

]]> By: Chocolattes http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-378 Chocolattes Mon, 22 Jan 2007 21:00:06 +0000 http://thegeekinpink.com/2007/01/21/the-ex-files/#comment-378 Hie! I have been a fan of your blog for some time already. First time commenting =) I totally agree with you, about the exs thing. But I was just wondering, what if, there are people who felt that there's something going on, but forces themselves to keep it a secret, but in the long term, becomes emotionally affected by it? They could just accidentaly blurt it out and before you know it, drama appears. How do you ppl cope with that urge to let them know, you don't feel secure? Hie! I have been a fan of your blog for some time already. First time commenting =) I totally agree with you, about the exs thing.

But I was just wondering, what if, there are people who felt that there’s something going on, but forces themselves to keep it a secret, but in the long term, becomes emotionally affected by it? They could just accidentaly blurt it out and before you know it, drama appears. How do you ppl cope with that urge to let them know, you don’t feel secure?

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