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1. anonymous 8.3.08 / 5am

   hey just wanna tell u that it’s not eight it’s nine actually. i have just recently started reading your blog. i should give you a credit for writing this blog. hey i’m not your fan or anything, but lately i have been checking for updates in your blog almost everyday. you know why because you’re so damn honest. unlike other female bloggers you don’t boast about yourself or put your pictures. just wanna tell you please keep writing because i really do like reading it.
2. june 8.3.08 / 7pm

   *hugs

   space is good
   he will regret asking for it some day :P
3. Strifus 8.3.08 / 10pm

   IH, your going to find that life is pretty much like this. round and round in circles week after week, especially after our formative years are over and we have to tackle responsiblity. all of a sudden, we dont do the things we used to do purely due to lack of time, or just having other things on your plate. its not because your boring but rather things have changed in your life.

   what you must do is realise that your life has changed and adapt to it. in the years to come, youll find that there will be more challenges to face and the change to your life will be immense. give yourself time and try to enjoy yourself as much as possible.

   as for the boyfriend, the fact that your life has changed has something to do with why he probably needs some space. i dont know what your domestic life was like with him prior to these changes but it seems that they are probably the likely cause of his change of heart. lets just say, from experience, that the asking for space thing is merely him saying i cant deal with how youve changed (probably). he probably still cares for you but only time will tell.

   as for being clingy, well, although ive been an avid reader of your blog for some time now, i dont know enough about you to make and assesment but in the past you didnt seem to be the clingy type, to me at least. not to say that you cant be clingy but i think its more of a symptom than it is an illness.

   sufficed to say, that there have been some big things that have happened in your life in the past months, some large some not so large. i dont know what they are and I dont know if anyone can help you through this. all i can say is that you are a great person inside and out and that right now, your hiding from the world. perhaps its time to be yourself again. let the girl inside spread her wings once more, who knows where you will go from there.
4. Lin-lynn 8.6.08 / 11am

   All part of growing up… how boring. My life included. =/

   Now if you don’t have a severe lack of gal pals like me, it’s time to have a Girls Night Out! And many more to come. They don’t necessarily have to be girls only, it’s just time to explore some new friends not in the bf’s circle and go out and have lots of fun. Maybe minus the drugs (I’m uncool like that ;p).

   And it’s so easy to fall out of blogging (cue dead link in blogroll), but do update more often now if you have the time! :D I miss your regular writings.
5. keem 8.6.08 / 7pm

   excitement never come look for me pun :(

   hahha.

   mmm.. i think it’s just that at diff stages of your life, diff things give you excitement. as a kid i used to lose sleep over things like, chinese new year, christmas, or going to the cinema.

   now ah.. food loh. i love food :D and going to the park and lying on the grass. and slightly nerdy, i love my uni :)

   come visit!!
6. bape 8.7.08 / 10pm

   Yes, past life is interesting, and yet it can harm you in the future. U are a smart girl, i dont have to elaborate more. Make dat call and you are the same old useless YOU, yourself hates and knows.
7. conjul 8.7.08 / 11pm

   i really nice to see you back writing. Well, please do think back what you did before and the question is why you want to go back.
8. Izzah 8.9.08 / 2pm

   hey babe, im so glad you still update. I click here from time to time so hopeful for one.

   My life has become so ridiculously routine and mundane lately too. I mean, it wasnt exactly the lifestyles of the rich and famous before, but hello, we did have our fun, when we were in uni.

   The responsibilities have caught up with me too.

   But you know, fun is fun, and right now we’re at the point where we are building our careers. Im all for the once in a while let your hair down sort of fun but once in while, not always(because that would be immature:P) but once in a while, we owe it to ourselves to just let go.

   I should cross the border for some good old fashioned fun one of these days. Brunei is not dry, but the lack of pubs and so on suffocates.

   Hope u had a good night out.
9. dw3n 8.10.08 / 3am

   *hugs* is what i can think of =)

   cheer up, girl
10. nyx 8.10.08 / 10pm

    Here is a big hug for you, dear ….

    *HUGZ*

    just because you have had one ready whenever I needed one. :)
11. aaronparan 8.11.08 / 7pm

    make tht 10 *grins*

    at times all you need is to close your eyes, and take a deep breath. as you exhale, fan yourself with your hands.

    i mean, it might make you look a bit retarded but it works for me. heheh :)
12. thegeekinpink 8.12.08 / 12pm

    Anonymous: Thanks for reading. Oh you should have come when I was still so vain and had so much time on my hands to upload pictures… one day you shall see

    June: Yes space is good… I guess on my part, I thought the past was so good that it means we must be so in love… that I never thought to realise that the present however that it has change, he has never loved me less. So I think we’ve both regretted that we didn’t see this coming…

    Strifus: Hi my longtime loyal reader. I’ve always liked your comments… they’re always longer than my post and much more meaningful :) I have changed so much over the past two years and I guess I’m afraid that people I love will stop loving me because I’ve changed and am no longer fun. It’s all good I’ve quit a lot of vices and I’ve become much healthier and less depressed, suicidal etc but on the bad days, I just lie in bed and wonder. As for the boyfriend, we’re still together and so much in love. But the love has settled into a comfortable, calm period now that we’re nearing our two years anniversary. It is no longer fiery and feisty the way it used to be when we first dated but he has told me it doesn’t mean he has loved me any less, just even more because he now thinks we don’t need to constantly have our hands on each other to know that we’re meant for each other. Guess I just learnt this now and I’m so glad…

    Lin-Lynn: I don’t see you updating your blog either! :P

    Keem: I get excited over food all the time… i lie awake at night last night thinking about the seafood buffet dinner I’m about to have later at Marriot

    bape: in the past, I’ve always hated myself more often than I loved myself but I’ve never thought of myself as useless because egoistically, I thought at the very least I am quite smart. Haha. But don’t worry, I didn’t make the call - couldn’t find the number :P

    Conjul: Why would I wanna go back? Yes you’re right… I should ask myself that more often.

    Izzah: The font on this comment box is looking pretty good, don’t you think? Have you bought tales of beedle the bard yet? Is that the name of the book? Sigh… I think I shall credit this also to post potter depression! That’s whyyy…

    Dw3n: I miss you so… why you still type in 3?

    Nyx: Big bear hug!

    Aaron: It was so nice meeting you at rainforest. I always take deep breaths! It makes my chest heaves and creates cleavages!
13. Lin-lynn 8.12.08 / 7pm

    New one now hurhur, may revamp that one perhaps w alias in the future. :P
14. Selfairy 8.16.08 / 11am

    For once, I come to your blog find updates! To be honest I visited everyday, but there was a point when I was convinced you’d never write again so I stopped visiting. Today was different, I realized I haven’t been to your blog in such a long time, and tada, I’m here.

    Please please please don’t disappear again?
15. dw3n 8.18.08 / 2pm

    haha what 3? my nick? 3=E doesnt make any sense lol
16. -allan- 8.21.08 / 11am

    Make me 11…glad to have you back!Missed you lots!

    Life is always full of this sort of drama…thats what makes life interesting..you just hang in there..good things always comes to those who wait..
17. Eric Y 9.11.08 / 8pm

    Life is always full of dramas, as we get older we need to bare a lot of responsibility. That’s life. Suck it up, take a walk, move on. Tomorrow is always a brighter day.

    Take care women.

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